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What Do You Do When Your Husband Is Out All Night Playing Pokémon Go with Another Woman? What Do You Do When Your Husband Is Out All Night Playing Pokémon Go with Another Woman?

This week in Savage Love, sex columnist/activist Dan Savage addresses the truly 2016 quandary of a wife whose husband will not stop playing Pokémon Go at odd hours with another woman despite her insistence that it makes her very uncomfortable.

Mike Huckabee Hates Rainbow Doritos, Dan Savage and a Charity to Help LGBT Teens Mike Huckabee Hates Rainbow Doritos, Dan Savage and a Charity to Help LGBT Teens

Republican presidential candidate Mike Huckabee is concerned that Rainbow Doritos are an attack on Christianity—that’s right, tasty corn chips are coming for his sweet, sweet religion.

Bigots Are Already So Mad About Dan Savage's Mild-Looking Sitcom Bigots Are Already So Mad About Dan Savage's Mild-Looking Sitcom

The exceptionally handwringy Media Research Center—a conservative organization devoted to being professionally shocked, just shocked—is already exceptionally upset about The Real O’Neals, a forthcoming ABC show loosely based on sex columnist Dan Savage’s childhood. I’m sorry: sex columnist and “pro-gay bully Dan…

Waitress Gets $3,000 Tip, Joins Real-Life Pay It Forward Chain Waitress Gets $3,000 Tip, Joins Real-Life Pay It Forward Chain

Last week, The Stranger published an argument about tipless restaurants that have begun popping up in Seattle. Writer Dan Savage was against the idea, saying tips are what make waiting tables a “good,” “lucrative” job.

New Video Series Stars Christians Who Love the Gays New Video Series Stars Christians Who Love the Gays

Now that the phrase "It Gets Better" is more culturally pervasive than Pepsi's slogan (is it still "You Got The Right One Baby, Uh-Huh!"?), Dan Savage has launched a new project with marginalized gay kids in mind. This time around, instead of adults reassuring The Youths that bullying will subside, gay-embracing…

Advice Columnist Is Sorry for Making a Stink About Gendered Pronouns Advice Columnist Is Sorry for Making a Stink About Gendered Pronouns

On Monday, Salon published a letter sent to the man, Cary Tennis, who writes their advice column. The letter was from a reader who was upset because his or her husband or wife had been having an affair with someone from their office. Cary felt for them, but he didn't feel for the way they didn't mention the gender of…

Terry Miller Makes an Honest Man of Dan Savage Terry Miller Makes an Honest Man of Dan Savage

Now that same-sex couples can get married in Washington state, some famous Washingtonians are sealing the deal. One of the first up was Dan Savage. He and husband Terry Miller tied the knot, and don't they look dapper? And don't you wish you were there? I'm in love with love!

Watch Dan Savage Debate the President of the National Organization for Marriage at his Own Dinner Table Watch Dan Savage Debate the President of the National Organization for Marriage at his Own Dinner Table

Savage Love author and creator of the It Gets Better project Dan Savage recently invited Brian Brown, president of the National Organization for Marriage, over to his home for dinner with him and his husband. The meal was followed by a good ol' fashioned, formal debate on gay marriage. Brown surprisingly accepted…

Drag Queen Refers to Black Contestants as 'The Help' Drag Queen Refers to Black Contestants as 'The Help'

Last night was the Frock the Vote episode of RuPaul's Drag Race, and Phi Phi O'Hara attempted a Sarah Palin-esque character. When guest judge Dan Savage asked her which queen she would choose to be a running mate, Phi Phi made a joke about The Help, referring to Dida Ritz and Latrice Royale. The thing about the joke…

Dirty Sign Language: Santorum Dirty Sign Language: Santorum

Why should deaf people be left out of the Santorum-mocking fun? Let's all learn to say "frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter," using only our hands.

Dan Savage Cordially Invites Herman Cain to Prove That Being Gay is a Choice Dan Savage Cordially Invites Herman Cain to Prove That Being Gay is a Choice

Earlier this week, Presidential candidate/inscrutable jokemaker Herman Cain claimed during an interview with Piers Morgan that being gay is a choice because there is no evidence that exists that it is not a choice. Columnist Dan Savage caught wind of what Cain said, and disagrees. Very strongly.

Non-Monogamy Doesn't Mean You Get To Be A Dick Non-Monogamy Doesn't Mean You Get To Be A Dick

Dan Savage's thoughts on monogamy — and the lack thereof — are now well-known. But that hasn't stopped one husband from twisting them into an excuse for cheating.

How To Talk About Non-Monogamy Without Losing Your Mind How To Talk About Non-Monogamy Without Losing Your Mind

Discussions of infidelity tend to freak everybody out. But contrary to popular belief, it is possible to talk about monogamy, non-monogamy, sex, and cheating in a rational way.

Is Dan Savage Our Ann Landers? Is Dan Savage Our Ann Landers?

Is Dan Savage our generation's Ann Landers? And is that a good thing?

The Problem With Dan Savage On MTV The Problem With Dan Savage On MTV

Dan Savage is a good sex columnist. He's opinionated, idiosyncratic, and has helped a lot of people. The It Gets Better project is a major achievement. But is he the best one to give advice to high school students?

Writer Suggests She Had Lesbian Fling With Rihanna Writer Suggests She Had Lesbian Fling With Rihanna

An upcoming book, Low Down Dirty Shame, alleges that Rihanna likes sexytimes with women.

The 15 Best "It Gets Better" Videos The 15 Best "It Gets Better" Videos

Dan Savage's It Gets Better Project has generated tons of amazing videos. We've selected 15 of note, from the President, a Marine, Vinny from Jersey Shore — and lots more.

Help Us Give Christine O'Donnell The Santorum Treatment Help Us Give Christine O'Donnell The Santorum Treatment

Now that noted dingbat Christine O'Donnell has thrust her way into our national discourse, she must be stopped.

Defending Dan Savage's "It Gets Better" Project Defending Dan Savage's "It Gets Better" Project

I've spent much of my weekend reading the various responses within the LGBTQ community to Dan Savage's It Gets Better video project — and not all of them are positive.

Awesome Video Project Shows Gay Youth "It Gets Better" Awesome Video Project Shows Gay Youth "It Gets Better"

Although Dan Savage's "Masturbate to Christine O'Donnell Day" is a questionable idea, we love his It Gets Better Project, in which he reaches out to LGBT kids to "show them what the future may hold in store for them."

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